Embrace yourself, Value yourself and be proud of yourself
I learned a lesson many years ago after passing through an experience in my life, i had spend years trying to please other people, wanting them to recognize the good in me, yet they end up murdering my name and blackmailing my image .You cannot control who will like you, who will speak kindly of you, who will judge you, who will love you, who will treat you unfairly, who will support you, who will spread lies about you, or who will be your biggest fan. We literally cannot control how any other person is going to feel, think, or treat us.
I keep on lying to myself by saying i care less of what they say but in my heart i do care because i really want to know why i was a topic for unnecessary people.
i fought with myself for no reasons, its provoke me to speak my inner out but as time pass by as i grow i realized that my entire Community isn’t doing me good, majority end up…..
. Damaged . Unhappy . Broken . Confused . Frustrated . Lonely , etc.
I realized that their Life situations lead them to damage others, they feel comfortable in false stories spread around because thats how they live their lives !!
Thanks to my wonderful Husband for helping me out of that situation and feelings i had, he knows me much better than everyone on this earth apart from GOD, he encouraged me, advised me and helped me out completely enable to live the happy life i always wish to live without anybody’s pulling me down !!
People have a tendency to talk when they don’t know what to say. So next time when someone says something about you, ignore it because its just empty words !! You will never get to where you need to go in life if you are constantly worried about what others think. Time will come where you have to put your pride and your reputation on the line to get what you want. Who gives anyone the authority to think his or her opinion is the right one ? I don’t need to live my life following ideal notions of what people want to see. I can break out of that and just be myself. It took a long time to figure out, but the secret to life really is not giving a damn. Because caring about what other people think will never bring you happiness rather damage you.
How many of you thoughts are devoted to the opinion of others ? That heavy burden that weights down on you day in and day out, stems from the opinions of other people.
One insult has the ability to send to the deepest depths of misery and self loathing. When we become so obsessed with other people`s opinion of, you forget your own
Life is Beautiful
We are all blessed with a wounderful life, so why the hell would you spend it worried about other people`s opinion ? Do whatever pleases your life, be whoever you want to be, live the life like there is no tomorrow and be happy with your situation, all fingers are not the same. We thinks about a lot of things everyday that we shouldn`t have to think about.
What are they thinking about me ?
How does my life look to others ?
Imagine how free you would be if you let go of all those thought, Imagine if you just stopped caring , make an effort to stop giving a damn to free yourself. Its a method that needs to be practiced, and once you understand how to let go, you will see the world different .
Once you give up catering to other people, you will find out who you are and that beautiful freedom will be like taking a breath for the first time 😉
You are the Hero of your own Life, people don’t care about you, they just make judgements which doesn’t mean anything. There are a lot of stupid people out there, who want to see you fail in LIFE. It`s human nature, their opinions aren’t worth in your world by caring what they think.
Focus on God
Leave the rest to the Almighty God and have faith ! I had to first block out everyone else opinions of me and instead focus all my attend on being the girl i want God to see in me, God is the only person i needed to worry about pleasing.
The best part is God doesn’t play favorites in who he cares and love, God will never tell you that you are not enough, only you knows where your own relationship with God stands, nobody else.
Letting go and moving on from people has got to be one of the hardest things to do ; and I think a lot of times we hold on too because we just don’t know how to let go. A few years ago some friends of mine and I parted ways in what seemed like an unexpected break up but it really helped me to gain my freedom completely back and no more a public figure for them. Before I could make a strong commitment to self-care, I had to get rid of certain people, places and things from my life.
Letting go and moving on does not mean you have failed. True failure only comes with never having tried for something in the first place. Acknowledging, on the other hand, that something you tried didn’t work is incredibly valuable because it gives you an opportunity to learn, make changes and try again.
I thank my God for graciously granting me the opportunity of learning that death is the key which unlocks the door to our true happiness.
How was your experience and how do you feel today ?
Let`s share our thoughts together 😉
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